Regret Aversion

• The Bottom Line: Regret aversion is the emotional pain we feel after making a decision that turns out poorly, a fear so powerful it often paralyzes us into inaction or, conversely, pushes us to foolishly follow the crowd.
• Key Takeaways:
• What it is: A psychological bias where we make choices designed to avoid the future feeling of regret, rather than choices based on pure logic.
• Why it matters: It fuels two of the biggest investment mistakes: holding onto losing stocks to avoid the pain of admitting a mistake, and chasing overvalued “hot” stocks for fear of missing out. It is the enemy of rational, independent thought.
• How to use it: By understanding this bias, you can build systems—like a written investment_thesis and a disciplined checklist—to serve as a firewall between your emotions and your portfolio.

Imagine you're deciding between two restaurants for a special anniversary dinner. Restaurant A is your trusted, old favorite—great food, fair prices, but a bit “boring.” Restaurant B is the trendy new place everyone is talking about—exciting menu, but expensive and notoriously inconsistent. You agonize over the choice. What if you pick the trendy place and it's a disaster? You'll spend the whole night thinking, “I knew it! We should have gone to Old Reliable.” That stinging feeling, that “I should have known better” monologue in your head, is regret. Now, let's say the fear of that potential feeling is so strong that you just can't bring yourself to try the new place, even though it might be amazing. You play it safe and stick with what you know. That's regret aversion in action. It's not the feeling of regret itself, but the fear of future regret that alters your present-day decisions. In the world of investing, this bias is a hundred times more potent because the stakes are so much higher. The “bad meal” isn't just a disappointing evening; it's a significant loss of your hard-earned capital. This fear manifests in two primary, and equally dangerous, ways for an investor:

• The Regret of Commission (Fear of Action): This is the fear of making a decision and being wrong. You do the research on a wonderfully undervalued company, but you hesitate. You think, “What if I buy it today and the market crashes tomorrow? I'll feel like an idiot.” This fear can lead to “paralysis by analysis,” where you never pull the trigger on great opportunities, leaving your money to be eroded by inflation in a savings account. It also pushes you toward the “safety” of the herd, because if you buy the same popular stock as everyone else and it goes down, the regret is diffused. It wasn't just your mistake; it was everyone's mistake.
• The Regret of Omission (Fear of Inaction): This is the fear of not doing something that turns out to be a massive success. It’s the engine behind FOMO. You see a speculative tech stock soaring 500% and think, “My neighbor made a fortune on that! If I don't buy it now and it goes up another 500%, I will never forgive myself.” This type of regret aversion causes investors to abandon all discipline, ignore valuations, and chase bubbles right at their peak.

> “It is remarkable how much long-term advantage people like us have gotten by trying to be consistently not stupid, instead of trying to be very intelligent.” - Charlie Munger Munger's wisdom cuts to the heart of the matter. Conquering regret aversion isn't about making brilliant, clairvoyant predictions. It's about creating a process that prevents you from making emotionally-driven, “stupid” decisions.

For a value investor, regret aversion isn't just a minor nuisance; it is a fundamental opponent that must be recognized and overcome. The entire philosophy of value investing often requires you to do things that will trigger immense potential for regret.

• It Fights Against Contrarianism: The core of value investing is to be “greedy when others are fearful, and fearful when others are greedy,” as Warren Buffett advises. This means buying solid businesses when they are surrounded by bad news and pessimism. Regret aversion screams against this. Buying a stock that everyone else hates is socially and emotionally isolating. If you're wrong, the regret is magnified because you were the lone wolf, the “idiot” who zigged when everyone else zagged. Understanding this allows you to see the fear for what it is—an emotional reaction, not a valid investment thesis.
• It Undermines the Margin of Safety: Your margin of safety is your best defense against the pain of being wrong. When you buy a business for significantly less than its intrinsic value, you create a buffer for error. This concept is the logical antidote to regret aversion. The fear of being wrong is lessened when you know that even if your calculations are off by 20% or 30%, you are still unlikely to suffer a permanent loss of capital. Regret aversion makes you focus on the stock price's next move; a margin of safety forces you to focus on the business's underlying worth.
• It Shrinks Your Time Horizon: Regret is a short-term emotion, often triggered by daily or weekly price fluctuations. If you buy a stock and it immediately drops 10%, regret aversion kicks in hard. But a value investor's time horizon is measured in years, even decades. You are buying a piece of a business, not a lottery ticket. By focusing on the long-term earning power of the company, you can better withstand the short-term noise and the emotional pangs of regret that Mr. Market will inevitably try to inflict upon you.
• It Causes “Get-Even-Itis”: This is a particularly nasty symptom of regret aversion. An investor buys a stock at $100, and it falls to $60. The fundamental story has changed for the worse, and a rational analysis would demand selling. But regret aversion takes over. The investor thinks, “I can't sell it for a loss. That would mean admitting I made a huge mistake. I'll just hold on until it gets back to $100.” The original purchase price becomes an irrational emotional anchor. This prevents them from cutting their losses and reallocating that capital to a much better opportunity, turning a temporary loss into a permanent one.

You can't eliminate regret aversion—it's part of our human wiring. But you can build a systematic framework to manage it and ensure your rational brain stays in the driver's seat.

A disciplined process is the best defense against emotional decision-making.

1. Step 1: Write Down Your Investment Thesis. Before you click the “buy” button, you must be able to clearly articulate, in writing, why you are buying this specific business.
   • What is your conservative estimate of its intrinsic_value?
   • What is its competitive advantage, or economic_moat?
   • What are the key drivers for its future growth?
   • What is your required margin_of_safety?
   • Crucially: What specific events would prove your thesis wrong and trigger a sale?

This document becomes your rational anchor. When the stock price is falling and the fear of regret is rising, you can reread your thesis and ask: “Has anything fundamentally changed?”

1. Step 2: Use a Standardized Checklist. Great investors, like great pilots, use checklists to prevent unforced errors. Your checklist should be based on core value investing principles.
   • Business Quality: Does it have a durable moat? Is it a business I can understand?
   • Financial Strength: Does it have a strong balance sheet with manageable debt?
   • Management: Is the leadership team honest and shareholder-oriented?
   • Valuation: Is it trading at a significant discount to my estimate of its intrinsic value?

This systematic approach forces you to be objective and prevents you from getting swept up in a compelling story while ignoring red flags.

1. Step 3: Focus on Process, Not Outcome. This is perhaps the most difficult but most important step. In investing, a good process can sometimes lead to a bad short-term outcome due to randomness and luck. Conversely, a terrible process (like buying a meme stock on a whim) can lead to a great short-term outcome.
   • Judge your decisions based on the quality of your research and whether you adhered to your checklist and thesis at the time of the decision.
   • If you followed your process and the stock went down, you didn't make a “bad” decision; you had a good decision with an unfavorable outcome so far. This reframing is essential to learning and avoiding the paralysis of regret.

Be honest with yourself and watch for these emotional red flags in your own behavior.

• Red Flag: “I'll sell as soon as I break even.” If you find yourself saying this, you are in the grip of regret aversion. The price you paid for a stock is irrelevant to its future prospects. The only question that matters is: “Knowing everything I know today, would I invest fresh capital into this company at its current price?” If the answer is no, you should sell, regardless of your entry point.
• Red Flag: Your portfolio is full of “hot tips.” If you look at your holdings and realize many of them were bought because a friend recommended them or you read a bullish article, you are likely being driven by the regret of omission (FOMO). A portfolio should be a collection of well-researched businesses, not a collection of popular stories.
• Red Flag: You constantly check stock prices. If you feel compelled to check your portfolio's value multiple times a day, you are focused on the market's noise, not the business's signal. This short-term focus makes you exquisitely sensitive to the pangs of regret, as every small dip will feel like a mistake.

Let's observe an investor, David, in late 2021. He has cash to invest and is considering two companies.

• Company A: “Durable Goods Inc.” A well-established manufacturer of consumer staples. The business is predictable, profitable, and generates strong cash flow. However, it's considered “boring,” and the stock price has been flat for a year. Based on David's analysis, it's trading at a 30% discount to its intrinsic_value.
• Company B: “NextGen Mobility Corp.” A pre-profit “disruptor” in the electric scooter space. The company has a flashy CEO, a great story, and its stock is up 400% in the last six months. Every financial news show is talking about it. It trades at 20 times its revenue, with no clear path to profitability.

The Regret Aversion Trap: David's emotions are at war with his intellect.

• The Regret of Omission (FOMO): His mind races, “Everyone is getting rich on NextGen! If I don't buy it and it becomes the next big thing, I'll be kicking myself forever. My friends will think I'm an idiot for buying a boring company like Durable Goods.”
• The Regret of Commission: He also thinks, “But what if I buy NextGen at the top? If it crashes, I'll feel like the world's biggest fool for chasing a bubble. Buying Durable Goods feels safer, but if it stays flat while NextGen doubles again, I'll regret being so timid.”

The Value Investing Process as an Antidote: Instead of succumbing to his emotions, David forces himself to use his anti-regret framework.

1. Checklist: Durable Goods passes every item on his checklist: understandable business, strong financials, and a clear margin_of_safety. NextGen fails on almost every count, particularly valuation and profitability.
2. Written Thesis: He writes a one-page thesis for Durable Goods, calculating its intrinsic value and noting that he would reconsider his investment if the company's brand eroded or its debt levels ballooned. He finds he cannot write a logical thesis for NextGen beyond “the stock price is going up.”
3. The Decision: David buys a position in Durable Goods Inc. He accepts that it's not the exciting choice, but it's the rational one. He commits to holding it for at least three years unless his thesis is broken.

The Outcome: Over the next 18 months, interest rates rise and the market's appetite for speculative, unprofitable companies vanishes. NextGen Mobility's stock collapses by 90%. Durable Goods, however, continues to generate profits and pay dividends. Its stock price gradually appreciates 40% toward David's estimate of its intrinsic value. By trusting his process over his emotions, David avoided a devastating loss and achieved a satisfactory return.

• Builds Emotional Resilience: The single greatest advantage of understanding this bias is that it allows you to name the enemy. When you feel that knot in your stomach, you can say, “Ah, that's just regret aversion talking.” This act of recognition is the first step toward dismissing the emotion and focusing on logic.
• Forces Investment Discipline: To combat regret aversion, you are forced to adopt the very habits that define successful long-term investing: patience, a written plan, a focus on business fundamentals, and a contrarian spirit.
• Protects Capital: A clear understanding of regret aversion is a powerful defense against participating in speculative bubbles and holding onto dying businesses—two of the most effective ways to permanently destroy your capital.

• Encourages herd_mentality: The fear of being wrong alone is far greater than the fear of being wrong with the crowd. This bias is a primary psychological force that creates market bubbles and crashes.
• Anchors to the Past: Regret aversion causes investors to become irrationally anchored to their past decisions, especially their purchase price. This prevents clear-eyed analysis of a company's current value and future prospects.
• Stifles Opportunity: For the overly cautious, the fear of making any mistake can be so overwhelming that it prevents them from investing at all, guaranteeing a loss of purchasing power to inflation over the long term.

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